Parental Surveillance or Over Protectiveness

Parents always want to bring out the best version of their child and tends to guide them to the right direction. For this, they also observe every little things of their child. This is obviously necessary for child development. It can lead the children towards right direction. But the question is how the behavior change of one due to being watched? 

Research shows that a person's behavior can change when they are being watched because that is when our brain start to give us signals that ''You are being watched.' We are being watched by parents for our good but it does not feel good always. Sometimes some parents fail to understand this. They just go overboard and at some point they think that there is nothing wrong to watch over their child alltime in everything. They just forgot to give their child some space or privacy. Due to their over protectiveness they do such thing which can develop a mental pressure for their child. 

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One can feel disturbed by such constantly being watched. If they are not doing anything wrong, still they will live with the fear that they might do something worse to let their parents down. And this fear can reduce their self esteem. Gradually they will feel uncomfortable around people, will feel shy. Their friends also will feel uncomfortable to interact with them due to their parents surveillance. Even if they are doing some study and the parents are watching their every movement then how the friends can feel? Surely they are going to feel uncomfortable which can make them to ditched that particular friend. 

This is how one person can turned into an introvert due to the over surveillance of their parents and which is actually not good for their future. In the long run they can't cope with the society. They will not be comfortable to be the centre of people's eye. It also can develop scopophobia- the anxiety of being watched by someone. 

Parental surveillance is important but parents should know where to stop and where they should give their child space.

      Korean Culture Rhythm on Bangladeshi through K-Drama 

South Korean Drama Posters

Daud Kim, Korean You Tuber

 Saranghae Oppa !  

This is a well known line to all K-Drama lovers. Through K-Drama everyone knows the meaning- I love u, Bro. This is how a fan of K-Drama actors express their feelings.

Many Bangladeshi came to in touch with Korean Culture through K-drama, South Korean Drama series. Through all over the world Korean culture set a wave before. Bangladesh is not a exception in this case. In Bangladesh, there is a huge number of K-drama lovers, who not only watch the dramas but also follow the Korean trend in their daily lifestyle.

Though people get to know about Korean culture through dramas, but now they are also interested in knowing more about Korean culture. With the help of social media,YouTube,Google people are searching for Korean Makeover, Korean You Tuber.  In this blog I used some pictures of K-Drama list, Korean makeup artist,Pony and Korean You Tuber, Daud Kim.

In present Korean culture has a huge influence on Bangladesh. A large number of Bangladesh youth follows the Korean trend to groom them up. They love to use Korean outfits,bags,shoes,makeup products,skincare products etc. Due to the rhythm of  Korean culture, many online shops and physical stores are selling Korean products.

Pony, Korean Makeup Artist

Bangladeshi youth even love Korean foods, which help the restaurants owners to do their business smoothly through serving Korean dishes. Through the uses of internet Korean culture mixed with Bangladeshi culture, which lead to the cultural convergence. This convergence communication only happened due to the participatory culture of Bangladesh youth and K-drama played a huge role in this.

                                    My First day at University of Liberal Arts Bangladesh

I set my mind to do my BSS in MSJ at ULAB and luckily I was selected in the entrance exam. After getting selected I started my class in Dhanmondi. I went for my first class at campus B and it was my very first day at ULAB. At my first day I was very nervous as I am an introvert person. I cannot make friends easily. So, I was worried about the environment and new people surrounded by me. But then something good happen to me. I found a girl who approached to me saying hello. Then we started talking. I got to know her and later we became close friend. She was a nice person by heart and quiet daring also. When every kid was trying hard to know each other my that friend, Twinkle took me to the permanent campus,Beribadh by our yellow bus. I was shocked how she convinced me to go there. I must say I did not regret after going there. I felt so energetic seeing the green campus. Though I completed my first semester at Dhanmondi so I have a special affection for that campus, but I like our permanent campus more for the greenery. That's how my first day was but sad part is my first friend at ULAB,Twinkle transferred to another University. But with time I got some more good friends whom I really cherish. I am sharing my most favorite picture which was captured by my friend, Salehin in the permanent campus ground where I am lying with Sharon and Shuvo.

Resting in the green in our beloved campus